With over 7 billion people on the planet the last thing any woman wants is to be a hopeless romantic. In order for a relationship to work there are a lot of factors to take into consideration.
If you’ve recently started dating, this guide will show you ways to prevent problems, fights and misunderstandings from happening.
Next, iMujer reveals ways to make a relationship last.
Avoid sarcasm
When you’re writing him messages, don’t use sarcasm "LOL, K".
If you don’t like something, let him know in a nice way. With the wrong use of words things could heat up. People that are mad, most of the time say things they don’t mean. At the end what’s already said can’t be taken back.
Before sending a negative message or calling him to argue, take a few moments to relax.
Don’t try to get him jealous
When I was a little girl, my mom emphasized how I should treat others the same way I would like to be treated. Keep in mind that if this is the perfect guy, he would never cheat on you.
If he does something you don’t like, don’t get even. Whatever is done on this earth ―good or bad always comes back. Let him know that you’re not like other girls and that you love yourself too much.
Never insist
Does your crush text you often? If he doesn’t, text him once and wait to see what he replies. With time he’ll notice that you’re not the type of girl to chase a guy around. Allow for him to have the initiative since the very beginning.
Although a relationship is a 2 way street, a woman should always set her ground.
Kiss frequently
Unless he’s like Christian Grey, most guys like to be kissed. Frequently show affection; sooner or later he’ll tell you how much he loves the way you treat him.
Be there
Support him through thick and thin so that he knows you’re someone to rely on. Over the course of the relationship he’ll notice that you are the kind of woman any man would like to marry.
People know who really care for them during difficult times!
Communicate
Don’t be afraid to share your secrets with him and never lie. The truth will always find its way; nothing is more devastating than to discover dishonesty. The best time to start communicating is at the very beginning of the relationship. Doing so will build a stable relationship, preventing misunderstandings.
Don't listen to your friends
As realistic as this may sound, a relationship consists of 2 people not 3 or 4. Sometimes, things between your boyfriend/ husband and yourself are to remain private. Consider that maybe he wouldn’t like for you to make any comments or reveal anything that relates to you both.
Congratulations of finding him! When things are meant to be, you’ll get that special sensation since the very beginning. Don’t be afraid to open up and be honest about your life, because if he really cares for you ―he’ll understand and support you.
Being with the love of your life doesn’t mean that everything will be perfect. Instead, it implies that both of you have found a way to work things out despite all adversities.
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